Power of Asking Questions

These questions give you the opportunity to reset your thinking. I know these questions work because they took me from broke, homeless, and angry to a CEO making a six-figure income, author, speaker, and a leadership coach. I know these three questions work

The first question is, Who Am I? Before you start these questions, go somewhere quiet where it’s just you and a piece of paper, and turn off any distractions. If you can meditate first, take 5-10 minutes. Then ask Who am I? And is not as in Who am I as a leader? Mother, businesswoman, but who am I at my core? Are you caring, loving, or angry? Look at all the different emotions you feel, and write them down

The second question Who do you want to be? Who do you dream of being? Who is that person you dream of becoming? Write it out in detail. I mean, don’t just put down I want to be a best-selling author, or I want to start my own company or support the less fortunate. Write down in detail.

For me, Blue Rose Lifestyle will have a digital magazine, an online TV show, a podcast, coaching, and online courses. I have it all spelled out. Write down in as much detail as possible and read it at least 2 times a day. Allow yourself to course correct as well.

The third question is, Who do you have to become to be that person? What do you have to do? Now I used to say, how do we get you to that person? But that’s more of a roadmap, and I can give that to you in coaching or in my Free Facebook group Spiritual Confidence. That’s a roadmap of the steps you need to take.

Instead, Who do you have to become to be that person? How do we get you there? How do we work on that? What needs to change or be improved? What belief systems do you need to shift? What Shadows are buried within? Do you need to change friends? Change jobs?

There’s so much to look at. That’s where you start Reconnecting within asking yourself, who am I within? And just sit, listening for the answers. And then, you need to Rewire your thinking.

For instance, many people have a money wound. They may think that only liars, cheats, thieves, and old people make six figures. If that is how they think, they’re not going to get there. You must have the belief, the self-belief, that you can accomplish anything you want to accomplish. There’s nothing you can’t do.

You must believe that belief at your core. I knew before I started as a coach that I would be a force to be reckoned with.  I believe in women’s abilities to change and people’s desire for more. Everybody wants their dream. It’s my mission in life to show them the path to get there.

Then you need to Reignite Your Possibilities? Sit and write down everything you’ve ever dreamt of doing. Go back to childhood. What did you want to do when you were in kindergarten, first grade, fifth grade, you know, senior in high school, college, Junior College jobs, etc? What did you want to do? Then look for an overarching theme, my overarching theme has always been a type of healing, guiding, and entertaining, that’s why I’ve written books. Helping people heal has always been my North Star.

As I’ve talked about on my podcast, your beliefs are everything. Sit with these questions. Take your time, get a journal, and write in your journal. I went back to the written word on paper (versus electronic) because there’s something magical about putting your hand on the paper and writing it out. That makes the connection between heaven and earth, between your thoughts, the paper, and the universe. Get a beautiful journal and great pencils.

Sit down and ask yourself these three questions. If you need any help, please let me know. Just reach out to me DM or email me. You can find me on YouTube or my free Facebook group, Spiritual Confidence

Let’s get to work. Here’s to you Finding Your Blue Rose and Living the Blue Rose Lifestyle.