She Leads Confidently
#83 Why are YOU not a Millionaire?
Confessions of a Life Coach
I was recently asked that, and it caused me to pause. One of my customers asked me ‘How am I not a millionaire?’. I had to ask her why she thought that.
She stated how much I changed her life, and why am I not sharing my gift. Why am I not helping more people?
What a great question. What is it? Why do I not share? It comes so naturally to me. I can see people as they could be if only, they believe in themselves. Too darn many women do not see their greatness. They undervalue, undercharge, and don’t think they are worthy for people to pay for your services.
She believes the Universe is mad at me. Why? I don’t share my gift with others and the Universe believes it’s wasted talent. Could be right, could be wrong. I know everyone has a unique talent and it’s up to them to share. It’s up to them to step into the gift they have been given and be serious about it. Take yourself seriously and stop getting stuck in the BS. Stop being average when you can be extraordinary. Stop accepting crackers and cheese (see my opined TIKTOK post to see what I mean.)
Your time to become the women you are capable is NOW. Time to Find Your Blue Rose.
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Fear being Seen in Your business?
Patterns may be getting in your way.
I fear too many women want to be seen while fear being seen. This dichotomy creates chaos in many ways. It rules people’s lives, and most don’t know it. Heck, it took me years to see the pattern I was running. Do coaching, someone comments, I stop advertising. When someone says they listened to my podcast I would stop for a few weeks. Then reengage. It has wreaked havoc in my life both professionally and in business.
Many women over 50 spent their lives being told to be seen but not heard. Conversely, as they age they want to be seen and heard. Often, they get caught in feeling empowered and fear of being seen. Being seen does mean different things to different people. For me, it meant getting yelled at for ‘being a showoff.’ That’s how my mother viewed it. My dad on the other hand thought it was pretty cool.
This fear has held me back in so many ways it pains me to think about it.
Can you relate? What patterns do you have wrapped around being seen?
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Epi #81 Energy Healing and Your Past Stories
Energy is an integral part of the healing process.
Energy is an integral part of people’s healing process. Yet few understand entirely how it works. Everyone hears Energy flows where attention goes. Tony Robbins talks about when you have clear goals in mind and people focus there. They will vibrate at a higher level. There is truth to that statement.
However, energy does become stuck within people, which causes health problems. Or people develop the inability to move forward in a particular area of their life. (Also called Stuck on a hamster wheel).
I’m my Coaching business; I see too many women who don’t know why. For instance, I coached a woman who had panic attacks. She had had them since she could remember from her childhood. She is in the corporate world and doesn’t work well. Yet she believes, and because she believed, she made it true; it was holding her back.
The whole story is in the podcast, but the short version was that she saw a puppy hit by a car, she could not help it, felt helpless, and interpreted it to mean there were areas in her life she could not control. When she felt helpless or out of control, panic attacks happened.
After going through my Blue Rose Confidence program, she was able to heal the memory and, therefore, her panic attacks. Memories can inform people or hinder people.
The good news? Memories can be changed to support and empower, not hold back from your greatness.
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