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Epi #80 Healing Masculine & Feminine Energy

Importance of Healing Your Energy

Vulnerability ALERT – the importance of Energy Healing

Spending the majority of time in masculine energy instead feminine.  I know, I know I coach high earners and expect them to open up. However, I believe it’s time to start addressing, on a deeper level, issues women over 55 faces on a daily basis.

As an energy healer, I understand the role energy plays in our life. Oddly I never realized I spent a considerable amount of time in masculine energy on steroids. In my day job, I leaned more to the take no prisoner, no collaboration, I got this, know it all, and the list goes on. Which is odd because I am a softy within. However, my father was a ‘guys guy’ who have 1 boy and two girls. Both girls grew up as tomboys. I was never good at school, and I know that was a major disappointment to him. More about that in a different podcast.

I realized by living in the masculine I am blocking creating, listening, being, passive, and intuition. Spent way too much time doing, and producing. Task-oriented, competition, talking, intellect, and sadly forcing.

This explains why I don’t manifest as much or as often because I focus on forcing the issue instead of letting it happen. I was blocking my energy, my spiritual connection, and never realized it. 

Time to step onto the path and clear the energy. First, clear my blocks using Reiki (I’m a Reiki Master), be grateful for everything, love myself with no regrets, and ignite my possibilities.

Epi #79 Does Your Money Mindset Keep You from Moving Forward?

What keeps you stuck in place?

Does your money mindset hold you back? Too many women have a malfunctioning financial thermostat. What exactly is this? The self-belief that you can only earn xxx amount of money. For instance, a business owner holds a belief that in order to make $500,000 people must work 16 hours a day 7 days a week. This person doesn’t have any desire to work 16 hours a day so they will never make more than $200,000.

Another person could never seem to break the $75,000 line. Every time she would get close something would happen. Pay raise delayed, she went for a title instead of, and finally changed jobs. She could never understand how her friends made more than her, yet she worked harder than most. After some discussion she realized that no one in her family ever made more than $75,000-80,000.

After some coaching she was able to reset her thermostat to $200,000 just to start. How? To change 1) understand what the number represents 2) where did it come from family? relatives? friends? TV show etc. 3) how she defined work and 4) her value system.

Work is however you define it. What working hard may meant to you could mean something completely different to someone else. Or you can thing $300,000 is a ton of money yet your best friend thinks $3 million is a lot of money. Money is the exchange of energy from one person to another.

Believe that money is unlimited, and it will be. Conversely believe it is hard to earn and keep and that will play out as truth.

What is your financial thermostat? Look at your income over the past 5 years and there is your answer.

Have a question? Reach out on my FB Group, Next Level Confidence and ask.

Is your life in balance? There are 7 key areas that should be in balance to master your life. Take charge of designing your life, today.

Epi #78 Stop the Victim Mindset

ReIgnite Your Possibilities

Are you ready to move away from the victim mindset? Too many women find comfort in victimhood. Now I know saying ‘find comfort is a trigger from some of you. However, staying stuck in the past as a victim will not help ladies go where they deeply desire to be.  

It’s hard to put the past back in the past but there are tools and techniques to learn Being stuff in victimhood holds people back from going all-in on their dreams. They believe they can’t achieve their magnificent vision, so they continue to play small. Playing small really serves no one. When in fact that creates an even larger victim footprint. 

Instead commenting to that childhood victim and healing her is the path to take Regardless of how painful that road may be.

I have spent years healing my past and yet the victim still shows up uninvited. Also, with her negative self-talk about what a loser I am. I’ve had to learn how to ignore that voice and instead go to the voice that tells me I’m amazing. How wonderful I am. Yes, it’s my subconscious and I’ve had to work hard to train that talk but I did. Yet it still dips into the negative on occasion. #Subconciousisreal

One of the first steps in learning to quickly close off that negative self-talk. This takes commitment, patience, and a strong desire to reclaim your power. When my clients decide it’s time to own their power it’s because they understand the power of the subconscious and the past. 

Reigniting a new story that better supports the person you want to be, rather than the person you are is a wonderful, scary, fulfilling, hard yet joyful journey. 

Reclaim your power and Reawaken to your Possibilities. 

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