She Leads Confidently
Fear being Seen in Your business?
Patterns may be getting in your way.
I fear too many women want to be seen while fear being seen. This dichotomy creates chaos in many ways. It rules people’s lives, and most don’t know it. Heck, it took me years to see the pattern I was running. Do coaching, someone comments, I stop advertising. When someone says they listened to my podcast I would stop for a few weeks. Then reengage. It has wreaked havoc in my life both professionally and in business.
Many women over 50 spent their lives being told to be seen but not heard. Conversely, as they age they want to be seen and heard. Often, they get caught in feeling empowered and fear of being seen. Being seen does mean different things to different people. For me, it meant getting yelled at for ‘being a showoff.’ That’s how my mother viewed it. My dad on the other hand thought it was pretty cool.
This fear has held me back in so many ways it pains me to think about it.
Can you relate? What patterns do you have wrapped around being seen?
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Epi #81 Energy Healing and Your Past Stories
Energy is an integral part of the healing process.
Energy is an integral part of people’s healing process. Yet few understand entirely how it works. Everyone hears Energy flows where attention goes. Tony Robbins talks about when you have clear goals in mind and people focus there. They will vibrate at a higher level. There is truth to that statement.
However, energy does become stuck within people, which causes health problems. Or people develop the inability to move forward in a particular area of their life. (Also called Stuck on a hamster wheel).
I’m my Coaching business; I see too many women who don’t know why. For instance, I coached a woman who had panic attacks. She had had them since she could remember from her childhood. She is in the corporate world and doesn’t work well. Yet she believes, and because she believed, she made it true; it was holding her back.
The whole story is in the podcast, but the short version was that she saw a puppy hit by a car, she could not help it, felt helpless, and interpreted it to mean there were areas in her life she could not control. When she felt helpless or out of control, panic attacks happened.
After going through my Blue Rose Confidence program, she was able to heal the memory and, therefore, her panic attacks. Memories can inform people or hinder people.
The good news? Memories can be changed to support and empower, not hold back from your greatness.
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Epi #80 Healing Masculine & Feminine Energy
Importance of Healing Your Energy
Vulnerability ALERT – the importance of Energy Healing
Spending the majority of time in masculine energy instead feminine. I know, I know I coach high earners and expect them to open up. However, I believe it’s time to start addressing, on a deeper level, issues women over 55 faces on a daily basis.
As an energy healer, I understand the role energy plays in our life. Oddly I never realized I spent a considerable amount of time in masculine energy on steroids. In my day job, I leaned more to the take no prisoner, no collaboration, I got this, know it all, and the list goes on. Which is odd because I am a softy within. However, my father was a ‘guys guy’ who have 1 boy and two girls. Both girls grew up as tomboys. I was never good at school, and I know that was a major disappointment to him. More about that in a different podcast.
I realized by living in the masculine I am blocking creating, listening, being, passive, and intuition. Spent way too much time doing, and producing. Task-oriented, competition, talking, intellect, and sadly forcing.
This explains why I don’t manifest as much or as often because I focus on forcing the issue instead of letting it happen. I was blocking my energy, my spiritual connection, and never realized it.
Time to step onto the path and clear the energy. First, clear my blocks using Reiki (I’m a Reiki Master), be grateful for everything, love myself with no regrets, and ignite my possibilities.
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