She Leads Confidently
Epi #79 Does Your Money Mindset Keep You from Moving Forward?
What keeps you stuck in place?
Does your money mindset hold you back? Too many women have a malfunctioning financial thermostat. What exactly is this? The self-belief that you can only earn xxx amount of money. For instance, a business owner holds a belief that in order to make $500,000 people must work 16 hours a day 7 days a week. This person doesn’t have any desire to work 16 hours a day so they will never make more than $200,000.
Another person could never seem to break the $75,000 line. Every time she would get close something would happen. Pay raise delayed, she went for a title instead of, and finally changed jobs. She could never understand how her friends made more than her, yet she worked harder than most. After some discussion she realized that no one in her family ever made more than $75,000-80,000.
After some coaching she was able to reset her thermostat to $200,000 just to start. How? To change 1) understand what the number represents 2) where did it come from family? relatives? friends? TV show etc. 3) how she defined work and 4) her value system.
Work is however you define it. What working hard may meant to you could mean something completely different to someone else. Or you can thing $300,000 is a ton of money yet your best friend thinks $3 million is a lot of money. Money is the exchange of energy from one person to another.
Believe that money is unlimited, and it will be. Conversely believe it is hard to earn and keep and that will play out as truth.
What is your financial thermostat? Look at your income over the past 5 years and there is your answer.
Have a question? Reach out on my FB Group, Next Level Confidence and ask.
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Epi #78 Stop the Victim Mindset
ReIgnite Your Possibilities
Are you ready to move away from the victim mindset? Too many women find comfort in victimhood. Now I know saying ‘find comfort is a trigger from some of you. However, staying stuck in the past as a victim will not help ladies go where they deeply desire to be.
It’s hard to put the past back in the past but there are tools and techniques to learn Being stuff in victimhood holds people back from going all-in on their dreams. They believe they can’t achieve their magnificent vision, so they continue to play small. Playing small really serves no one. When in fact that creates an even larger victim footprint.
Instead commenting to that childhood victim and healing her is the path to take Regardless of how painful that road may be.
I have spent years healing my past and yet the victim still shows up uninvited. Also, with her negative self-talk about what a loser I am. I’ve had to learn how to ignore that voice and instead go to the voice that tells me I’m amazing. How wonderful I am. Yes, it’s my subconscious and I’ve had to work hard to train that talk but I did. Yet it still dips into the negative on occasion. #Subconciousisreal
One of the first steps in learning to quickly close off that negative self-talk. This takes commitment, patience, and a strong desire to reclaim your power. When my clients decide it’s time to own their power it’s because they understand the power of the subconscious and the past.
Reigniting a new story that better supports the person you want to be, rather than the person you are is a wonderful, scary, fulfilling, hard yet joyful journey.
Reclaim your power and Reawaken to your Possibilities.
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Epi #77 3 Keys to Build a Successful Business
How to Succeed in Business
There are three keys to building a successful business. Consistency, Discipline, and a Burning Desire. Without these key elements, it can be a challenge. Consistency means meeting your commitments to your customer and yourself.
If you have a podcast and you commit to a weekly broadcast then you have to train yourself to meet that goal. If you have a weekly show in your Facebook group you have to keep that commitment. When you don’t then that negative’ voice starts talking. After one or two flubs it’s easy to just keep saying, it’s just who I am to never complete the task, be successful I’m just a loser. When that voice kicks on most times it wins. So be CONSISTENT and you’ll win.
Discipline is doing things that you don’t want to do at that moment in time. It’s having a plan and taking action on that plan. When you add discipline to the mix success will happen.
Finally, your burning desire to achieve your goals must be what propels your forward. You need to know how the end game looks and keep moving forward towards that goal. When you add these three driving forces to your tool chest success will be yours. Ready? It’s time to take your Confidence to the Next Level and Find Your Blue Rose. If you need some tips check out https://karenbarno.com/vip-confidence-coaching/
When following these 3 keys to building a successful business you know what you desire and how success looks achieving your goal becomes easier to achieve. These are key elements that are like baking a cake. If you leave out one of the ingredients the cake stinks. But if you put in all the key ingredients and you do it with love success will follow you.
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