She Leads Confidently
Epi $75 None of Your Business What People Think about YOU.
Mind your business
What people think about you is none of your business. Way too many of us worry about what others say think or act towards us. It took me years to understand it’s not my business.
Caring about what others think about me bothers me and in turn, undermines my mindset. When you worry about what others are thinking it erodes your confidence.
Make you hesitate from moving forward with your dreams. The reason why it’s truly none of your business is you can not control another view of their world. And your role in that world.
Each person has a worldview filled with beliefs, judgments, and prejudices. One person may view you in one light while another in a totally different way. I know this sounds offbeat, nonsensical, but flipping your thinking to support you is the key to personal happiness…and success,
Epi #74 Stop Asking Permission.
The secret to a happy and fulfilling life.
Far too many women are waiting for permission before they move forward. Especially women over 55. You found over the course of your life following the rules had a much better, kinder impact than not. Throughout school, people placed a lot of expectations on you. As you got older you were stuck.
You had spent your whole life making others happy. Doing whatever you need to do for everyone around you be happy. If there is any trauma in your life, asking for permission is on overdrive. It’s how you have earned to survive. Asking for permission.
If you’re like me, you are shaking your head saying nope not me. I thought the same thing. Then I thought of all my coaching clients and thought about the different ways they Ask Permission? I heard phrases like, I’m too old for this, right? Why won’t anyone help me? What will _____ think about me or my idea? My friend won’t accept me. It’s too hard.
Does this sound familiar? If so, Stop Asking for permission from an outside source. Start trusting yourself. Know that you are an extremely capable woman. Be fearlessly confident and step into the person you were meant to be.
Start living your best life, now.
Epi #73 Self Belief and YOU.
Reach Your Full Potential and Success will be Yours.
Welcome to #73 Next Level Confidence Podcast
These two words could determine your success or failure. What? Self-Belief. It’s how you perceive yourself and the interconnected world around you. Self-belief is the mindset that no matter what happens, you will prevail.
I had a strong belief from childhood that I would prevail. Through the abuse, trauma, motorcycle accident, closed head injury, homeless to CEO of an organization. I knew all would be well. When I was six years old, I explained to my mother that I would be moving out west at 18. And I did.
I barely made it out of high school, so my parents passed on paying for college. Based on the information they had, they were right. But they never saw my soul. I joined the US Air Force and received the GI Bill. Full ride to college. I knew I could do it.
Stop waiting for others to validate you, to tell you that you’re smart enough or good enough. Know in your heart, in your soul. I picture the bandshell in my hometown and hosting a workshop about the five steps to Next Level Confidence and discussing my book, a #1 bestseller, teaching women that with confidence and self-belief, they are unstoppable.
SELF BELIEF. With it, you will have Next Level Confidence. You will own your world. Without it, well, look around. What do you think?
Stop standing in the way of your success.
Reach your potential and bring your dreams to life.
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