She Leads Confidently
Epi #71 10,000 Hours, Nathan Chen and Mastery.
Mastery is the Key to Success
According to Maxwell Gladwell, to achieve mastery a person must have 10,000 hours on a single. Watching the Winter Olympics brought this to the top of my mind. Just reaching the point to have the next level confidence to achieve greatness has to be part of the recipe. Repetition is the mother of mastery. Each time locks the idea, concept, skill into your brain.
As I watched Nathan Chen ice skate, I tried to calculate all the time he practiced being able to have must muscle memory. And more important the confidence to know he can do it flawlessly.
Then I wondered how much other experts have put into their craft. Marie Forleo, Gabby Bernstein, and of course Oprah spent writing books, interviewing people each day, videos, podcasting, and all the other stuff required for greatness. The hours each put into their craft is amazing.
Then going even deeper I realized I have put in at least 10,000 hours studying all I can on number behavior, personal development, NLP, and transformative change. In 1991 when I found Tony Robbins Book Awaken the Giant Within at a random Target store I was lost. After reading this book within 5 years I went from being a nurse’s assistant to CEO of a nonprofit. I read everything I could to change my life. Then I made it my mission to teach everyone and anyone how to Next Level their Confidence, Find their Blue Rose and Live their best life ever.
Epi #70 Eliminate the Blame Game
Take Back Your Personal Power
Stop blaming others for your life. Your failures or foibles. Taking back your personal power starts with accepting you. Understanding who you are deep with, at your soul’s level. Frequent visits to your past, evaluating and trying to understand, just keep you stuck there. Keeps you looking backward instead of forward. Sometimes the reasons for the past are not for people to see, until a different time and place.
Looking back keeps from seeing the path laid out for them to walk. Release the past is accomplished by stopping to blamer others. Accept that God, spirit, the Universe, placed you in that situation for a reason. It will be revealed when you are prepared to hear or see it. Stop giving your power away to others around you. Stop allowing them to be a piece of your inner work. Cut the cord. Walk your path! The path laid out for you. But until that time believe in yourself.
Once people accept that greatness is locked within their soul, they will know their only purpose is to find the key.
Unlock the door fearlessly, have the faith and courage to walk in and BE YOU.
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#69 Who Am I, Really
Know Thyself
Who am I, Now? Take time to know whyself.
Setting down to do my yearly goal setting January 3 as I do every year. The first question is ask is who am I. I learned well rather admitted to myself I hate sharing personal info. I will share about trauma, overcoming obstacles, and raging failures but there are other areas that will not.
In my day job, I do extremely well. But in my side hustle, I never seem to gain traction. Now I’m an extremely confident woman so WTF. Why am I holding myself? I kept asking myself that question over and over until I had a vision.
The vision was of me sitting on an island. Alone. Pacing. Pacing back and other. Because on the other island was a large group of people having a blast. Celebrating, toasting each other, laughing, and complete joy. Occasionally they would look over at me and wave me over Screaming come on, come over.
But I can’t. Why? There is a rope bridge that I must cross. The bridge is unstable over shark-infested water. Yup, I was letting fear win. My goal, my desire was not bigger than my fear.
I also realized I wasn’t being truthful with my folks. However, I want them to tell me their issues, their weakness while I wasn’t sharing. I wasn’t showing up in a way that I demand of myself.
In 2022 I am committing I will show up I a major way. I will show you my success along with my failures. Where I fall down but I promise I will always get back up. And if you fall, I will help YOU GET BACK up and keep moving forward. My commitment to you is that if you do the work, I will do my best to help you get to where you desire.
Let’s cross the bridge together.
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