She Leads Confidently
Epi #70 Eliminate the Blame Game
Take Back Your Personal Power
Stop blaming others for your life. Your failures or foibles. Taking back your personal power starts with accepting you. Understanding who you are deep with, at your soul’s level. Frequent visits to your past, evaluating and trying to understand, just keep you stuck there. Keeps you looking backward instead of forward. Sometimes the reasons for the past are not for people to see, until a different time and place.
Looking back keeps from seeing the path laid out for them to walk. Release the past is accomplished by stopping to blamer others. Accept that God, spirit, the Universe, placed you in that situation for a reason. It will be revealed when you are prepared to hear or see it. Stop giving your power away to others around you. Stop allowing them to be a piece of your inner work. Cut the cord. Walk your path! The path laid out for you. But until that time believe in yourself.
Once people accept that greatness is locked within their soul, they will know their only purpose is to find the key.
Unlock the door fearlessly, have the faith and courage to walk in and BE YOU.
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#69 Who Am I, Really
Know Thyself
Who am I, Now? Take time to know whyself.
Setting down to do my yearly goal setting January 3 as I do every year. The first question is ask is who am I. I learned well rather admitted to myself I hate sharing personal info. I will share about trauma, overcoming obstacles, and raging failures but there are other areas that will not.
In my day job, I do extremely well. But in my side hustle, I never seem to gain traction. Now I’m an extremely confident woman so WTF. Why am I holding myself? I kept asking myself that question over and over until I had a vision.
The vision was of me sitting on an island. Alone. Pacing. Pacing back and other. Because on the other island was a large group of people having a blast. Celebrating, toasting each other, laughing, and complete joy. Occasionally they would look over at me and wave me over Screaming come on, come over.
But I can’t. Why? There is a rope bridge that I must cross. The bridge is unstable over shark-infested water. Yup, I was letting fear win. My goal, my desire was not bigger than my fear.
I also realized I wasn’t being truthful with my folks. However, I want them to tell me their issues, their weakness while I wasn’t sharing. I wasn’t showing up in a way that I demand of myself.
In 2022 I am committing I will show up I a major way. I will show you my success along with my failures. Where I fall down but I promise I will always get back up. And if you fall, I will help YOU GET BACK up and keep moving forward. My commitment to you is that if you do the work, I will do my best to help you get to where you desire.
Let’s cross the bridge together.
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Epi #68 What is Your One Reason?
Your Burning Desire!
It is very hard to get up at 4:30 am to exercise, work on your book, coach an overseas client or just start your day. If you don’t know your reason for accomplishing all you want to accomplish it most likely will not happen. It’s so important to know what your fall on the sword moment is. The place your mind goes to motivate you when you are exhausted, hungry and just done with it. When you have your reason, it is easier to flip that mental switch. The switch that will help you keep going.
People say successful people are different. Sure, they are made different because they discovered the importance of knowing their reason. Why. What does the end game look like for them? Successful people have this burning desire. They MUST accomplish their dreams. They are able to push themselves because they see the finish line. Now that line maybe is 50, 60, 80 years down the line but they know exactly what it looks like for them.
Most likely they have their goals are written down, affirmations at the ready. They can tell you to the smallest of detail what the end game looks like, smells like, who will be with them. They know because that is what fuels them. Drives them to keep going.
It is harder than it looks to post in 5 different places, do videos across different platforms, launch programs, converse with the team and customers, attend meetings into the late evening, tape podcasts, and the list goes on. But they do it. Why? Ask them. But be prepared for the very specific answer.
The obvious next question is What is Your Burning Desire?
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