She Leads Confidently
#67 What Your Judge in Others
Will Come Back at You
Judging other people’s looks, actions, money, how they talk, and weight is a human issue. No other animal on the planet judges others like humans. Unfortunately, too many were judged as children and carried that forward.
There is one negative, actually, a very negative outcome from judging others harshly. What you see in others that you dislike is contained within you. It’s a Universal law that what you see in others is a reflection if you see something you don’t like –within you. So when you see something in someone else you wish you had, guess what, you do!
Using the Judging technique is an excellent method to use when looking to make transformations in your life. Areas you may be stuck, blocked, or looking for Shadows hidden within. It is always Clue Alert when you have an adverse reaction to outside stimuli. Take the time and ask why you dislike that trait. What is the response you have to it, and how did it make you feel? Was it a visceral reaction?
Sit with the emotion and look back at when you experienced that same emotion when you had the same outcome. Once you can see the story, the next step begins. Tell yourself a different story. A story that supports and empowers you versus one that makes you feel less than and playing small. The name of transformation is reprogramming your mind by recreating a new, better, more supportive story.
Once you learn to use Judging as a way to help move you forward, you win the inner game.
Does this make sense?
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Epi #66 Are You Afraid of Being Seen?
Find Yourself playing a smaller game?
There are too many people who fear being seen. This usually developed from highly critical parents or someone in your life as a child. It didn’t matter what you did it was either never good enough or you would never be a success as ??????. So you decided, why try or you bought into never being successful enough, when you get to that point, you quit.
Stop. Or they can be the Center of Attention but only so far. I know this may not make sense. Maybe you have some great accomplishments yet you tell no one. Or when you start to have success whether financial, growth, etc you stop when it gets to a certain point.
For example – you sign up 5 new clients for your online course or sell your product to 3 new clients then you shut down. If you take a few minutes and look back you may see a pattern develop that when you get to a certain level you pull back.
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Epi #65 ReConnect, ReCreate and ReClaim Your Confidence
ReAwaken Your Powerful Self
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Confidence is a moving target. One day you are the most confident woman you know and the next day you’re hiding. You just don’t know how to flip the switch to be confident in all areas of your life. There are three steps that if you take them and follow the map you will learn how to unlock your confidence in 5 seconds.
The first step is to reconnect within and learn what stops you. What negative self-talk or memory prevents you from stepping forward. These bumps, bruises, limiting beliefs, or whatever you call them are preventing you from your calling. From raising your hands and saying it’s my turn.
The next step is to Recreate the stories that hold you stuck in the mud. Your mind is like a whiteboard. what you put into it can be erased and a new story put in its place. These new stories will support and encourage you to be your best self.
Finally, Reclaim YOU! After discovering who you are and what you truly desire, going after your dreams will prove to be a much easier pathway. Once you have clarity and the courage to be you ALL THE TIME, stepping into that person will be easy.
Once you know WHY, and Heal the Blocks, Finding Your Blue Rose, your true calling will be life-changing. The real question is…are you ready to be the best version of yourself? Let me know.
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