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Epi #52 How to Recognize a Childhood Shadow Imprint
What is Your Truth ?
Everyone has Shadows. Shadows are blurry blocks that hold them back from who they were born to be. These are the repressed pieces of our soul that others didn’t accept back when you were 4, 5, 10, 15 etc. You didn’t have the toolkit to disregard what they said you instead internalized the comments.
Then, they become real. A part of who you are, right or wrong. When people begin to search for what is holding them stuck these Childhood Shadow Imprints will show up. Healing the major ones is hard, can be the dark night of the soul kind of moment BUT is it worth it? Heck yes. Stepping into your true birth purpose makes all the tears worth it
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Epi #51 Just Do You & Success will Follow!
Reclaim Your Inner Fire.
Take time to think and ponder. Breathe. Then do you.
If you’re like me, when I first heard that line it made me stop. Think. What does that mean just do me? Aren’t I always myself? Aren’t I always living in my happy zone? The many times I heard that sentence I had the same thought, then moved on.
Until, the day it stopped me dead in my track. The day I realized I was not happy. Not totally Joyful. And for years that was fine. Until I realized I settled for believing I had it better than most. Now whether that is true or not, who knows. But I know I was done sleep walking through my life. Pretending all was well.
I spent the next three years doing a deep dive into my soul. You know the kind. You may recognize it by a different name, the Dark Night of the Soul. It was time for me to go within and do some deep healing. Look at what Childhood Shadow Imprints were standing in my way. How was I allowing other people’s voices to live in my head? The voice of my mother telling me I would always be fat, my father telling me to be the best ditch digger there was, another teacher telling me I’ll never be as smart as my sister, and another teacher told me I lived in a fantasy world.
Over the years, I have heard most of the childhood Shadow Imprints, but a few continue to come front and center. I know this sounds crazy, but I oud prefer it no other way. Why? Each time I heal a Shadow, my life up levels. My joy increased, and my confidence soars.
You see, when you heal your shadow, you take back charge of your life and become the most powerful women you know. You are even more unstoppable. Soon you know, you are100%, sure you can own the world and all your dreams.
Are you Ready for success to come find you? Then it’s time to .Find Your Blue Rose!
Jump over to my Facebook Group: Blue Rose Community and join the conversation.
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Epi 50 Make a Scene!
Women of a certain age were strongly encouraged to be seen and not heard. Make a scene was out of the question. They married the ‘right’ guy, had children, and walked through life like a Zombie. They were climbing the corporate ladder attempting to find their place.
Some we lucky to meet a mentor, but most had to find their way. They turned 50 and realized they had much to bring to the table. So many talents. Then something else happened.
They found their voice. Learned if that speaking quietly, like a lady, was no longer cutting it for them. They discovered their voice. And the absolute power of ‘making a scene.’
There are times when making a scene is the only way to be heard. There are nice ways to do it and hard-charging ways as well. When making a scene, you’re taking back your power while speaking your mind and being heard. There’s no longer a need to be a ‘good girl or a people pleaser. There is only the need to be true to YOU.
When was the last time you made a scene?
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