She Leads Confidently
Find Your Blue Rose-New Beginning!
A Blue rose is impossible to create. When you see a Blue Rose you can be assured it was dyed blue. That makes the blue rose mystical, magical, and representative of a new beginning and new opportunities.
Live an enchanted life. When you are looking for your purpose, calling, your blue rose know that your passion is hiding in your dreams. Look at what you think about all the time, Dream about it, think about it when you are dreaming, eating, driving. But sometimes what you are great at comes easy people reject it.
Thinking it just can’t be that easy. I’m here to tell you…it is. Sure you need to roll up your sleeves and get to work but it will be work you love to do. Take action today on your dream. Make it happen.
Find You Blue Rose. If you are interested in helping to find your passion, your calling, check out my coaching program. If you would like an introductory call just shoot me a DM and we will set something up.
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Epi 34 Learned Helplessness, Shadow Blocks🗣 ,and You! 💥
Learned Helplessness is a mental health term used to describe people who repeat a pattern. What is Learned Helplessness? In psychology, it’s a mental state in which a person is forced to bear painful or otherwise unpleasant stimuli. They become unable or unwilling to avoid subsequent encounters with those stimuli because it has learned that it cannot.
This behavior can appear in people who have been traumatized. Or have been beaten down. When the same action takes place later, they shut down. Most people don’t realize they have the behavior.
Then a trigger occurs, and they completely shut down. They’re stuck in the trauma memory. Helpless again.
The way to heal is to look within at the trauma and understand it happened to you, and YOU are not at fault. But this is a lesson for another day.
Recognize the signs of slipping into the victim mentality. When that happens, know how to ‘shake it off.’
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4 P’s for Success!
Plan, Prepare, Promote, and Prosper
4 P’s for Success’ Formula
After studying countless successful people through interviews or books, I learned they all have success patterns they follow religiously. All success leaves a clue. Most of them follow the 4 Ps of success.
First P is Planning. If you don’t know what the end looks like, how will you recognize it when it arrives. Begin with the end in mind. Plan what success will look like to you. What will you be doing, who will you be with, how are your raving fans doing. Write it down and visualize it as if it’s already has happened. Have as much detail that you can. Then start working backward, mapping out the path you plan to walk.
Understand that flying by your pants’ seat may work in certain parts of your life, but not when starting a business. Not having a plan will eventually hold you back. Creating an online course required many moving parts that entrepreneurs use must plan for during their journey.
I never planned to do videos, build classes, or coach well, you get the picture. Until the day, I asked my audience what they wanted to study the next week, and I heard crickets. In the end, everyone didn’t know what exactly what was my area of focus.
I was neither purposeful nor thoughtful. Please don’t make the same mistake!
The next P is Prepare. Another area I was subpar during my first few years. I would kind of prepare but never as much as is needed to be successful. Learn to write down your scripts for videos. It doesn’t need to be word for word but an outline to keep you on track.
Have an outline, a general idea, a complete roadmap, whatever works for you. Make sure you’re ready for all potential outcomes.
The third P is to Promote. Promoting can be the most challenging part of the 4 P’s and your journey in building your business. Many women have a challenge putting themselves out there and drawing attention to themselves. However, you can’t sell without promotion, so they go hand in hand. We can work together to build your confidence in this area.
The final P is Prosper. When you prosper in making money, you know all the puzzle pieces are in their proper place. Making money tells you that the other P’s are working. If you are not making money…let’s talk.
Here’s to the 4 Ps of SUCCESS in your life!!!
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