She Leads Confidently
Epi #37 Success is a Mindset!
I think of success as an outcome. And to achieve your results, your Mindset must rise to meet your outcome. Yet, I find they usually do not. Because people use goals like a dream and then select unachievable (in their mind) plans, they want to achieve their dream, but they DO NOT believe they can.
I know nuts. But that is how the majority of people think.
Change their Mindset, and they will think differently. People will set goals and achieve them all day long because they have an empowered mindset.
A mindset they built for success. Like those top athletics, they work and work on their craft. Perfecting every step they take until it’s locked into their mind, and they do it. Automatically.
That is when they cross over from normal average Josephine (for you men, an average Joe) to a high performer earning in the top 5%.
What’s more important? Doing the work or having the Mindset? I will say until the day I die, or someone disproves my thesis, that Mindset can and will carry you over the finish line 9 out of 10 times. Hard work 50/50.
Agree?
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#36 Self Labels and Negative Self-Talk
Sabotaging Behavior.
Labels are used every day on food, products, commercials, and on people. The problem is your label or how you label yourself determines your success or failure in many situations. Self Labels and negative self-talk go hand in hand.
Sounds harsh, I know. That label can determine the self-talk you have within whether it will be positive or negative. For instance, you tell yourself you are fat. or out of shape and need to lose weight. But your inner mind hears and repeats your fat. (Weight loss is an excellent example of how labeling can define a person. However, any explanation would work your not smart. You don’t deserve good things. The great jobs go to suck-ups, and you’re not a suck-up.)
When women then venture out to try something new, go shopping, girls night out, a first date, the script she keeps running is the I’m fat, nothing fits, I look terrible, and the self-sabotaging begins. The inner self-talk is off to the races repeating ALL the negative things you have ever heard about weight. You then shrink, go back into the self-imposed cage, and remain stuck.
Check out this article that can better explain self-sabotaging behavior. https://www.healyourlife.com/tags/self-sabotage
This behavior can heal when you refuse to allow negative thinking to take up residence in your mind. Relisten to my podcast episode #26 Others peoples Opinion of You https://karenbarno.com/opinions-of-you/
When you control your inner negative voice, you will begin to ignite your possibilities and Find Your Blue Rose.
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Find Your Blue Rose-New Beginning!
A Blue rose is impossible to create. When you see a Blue Rose you can be assured it was dyed blue. That makes the blue rose mystical, magical, and representative of a new beginning and new opportunities.
Live an enchanted life. When you are looking for your purpose, calling, your blue rose know that your passion is hiding in your dreams. Look at what you think about all the time, Dream about it, think about it when you are dreaming, eating, driving. But sometimes what you are great at comes easy people reject it.
Thinking it just can’t be that easy. I’m here to tell you…it is. Sure you need to roll up your sleeves and get to work but it will be work you love to do. Take action today on your dream. Make it happen.
Find You Blue Rose. If you are interested in helping to find your passion, your calling, check out my coaching program. If you would like an introductory call just shoot me a DM and we will set something up.
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