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How to Recognize an Energy Vampire.
Energy Vampires is an often-used word to describe those who seem to drain energy. There are different energy vampires. Those who steal your energy for a bit and those who drain it entirely leave an empty shell behind.
The ones who drain a bit of energy are not vampires. Most do not realize they are drainers because they were just ‘raised’ needing power from another source. Unable to get the required ‘refueling’ from within, they seek it from another source. Once they learn the skills to manage their emotions and power, they’ll discontinue the need to suck others’ energy.
Energy Vampires, true Energy Vampires, suck all the energy from the victim’s bones. Leaving battered and bruised people in their wake. Energy Vampires are like a ghost ship traveling alone, looking for their next victim.
An empty, unfulfilled, and sad person.
They look around, layout their net, find the perfect person, and then integrate themselves into that person’s life. They become the most essential person in the office. Volunteering for extra work, arriving early, and staying late. Before their ‘victim’ knows it, they handle their calls while slowing degrading the people around them.
That is the first hint you have an energy vampire in your mist!
Hint two, They could teach a class in drama. Why? Nothing in their life goes well according to them. Their stories are funny and engaging and designed to reel you in as they increase the energy-sucking.
Eventually, their victims understand what is occurring, and the relationship ends. Typically not well.
When people make comments such as you could be sisters, you are so much alike, or comparing your both…run!
You have an Energy Vampire in your mist.
Questions? Ask away.
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Are You Winning the Inner Game?
The Inner Game will decide your success or failure. How you view yourself, and your role in the world also works on your inner game. Standing in your power, or any women standing in their power, is a challenge. Why? Women were burned at the stake when they spoke up.
This alone gets locked into women’s subconscious. Then they play small. Afraid to stand up for fear of repercussions, fear of getting hurt mentally and physically. However, if you ask the Universe for help, it will send you a sign. Your job is to figure it out.
You see, there is a force in the Universe that directs those who listen. I call it the Force of Possibilities. Many call it God, the Universe, Spirit, the In-between, or a host of other names. All that matters is people understand there is something out there guiding them.
When women admit what they deeply desire then work 100% to receive, it will happen. In this podcast, it tall about the teacup and Possibilities and how I missed the meaning. When it is time to ‘hear’ the message, the Universe will make it clear.
The challenge is believing what you hear and understand what you are to do.
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Friends see Your Greatness.
When in doubt ask a friend.
Women in mid-life never fully see their potential. Always underestimating what their talents are while overestimating their weaknesses. I have my theory about why but that could be a podcast for another day. 😉
However, if you ask your friends, they will take 30 minutes to sing your praises. talking about all your accomplishments and minimizing areas you may be less gifted.
At a certain point, women begin to wonder What’s Next. What business would best suit their skill set? What would be their perfect niche? What would make you the happiest while making money? If you are not sure ask a friend.
Each person has a special gift. One unique to themselves. Your journey through this life is finding your niche, having the courage and confidence to step into your power. It’s time to discover what your one thing is and then celebrate with your friends. Wearing a mask and socially distancing, of course.
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