She Leads Confidently

I’ve been Domesticated

I’ve been Domesticated

Now It’s Time to Stand in My Power.

We as women have over the past hundred of years have been controlled. Told what a good girl looks like, how to act and behave. Those who have abuse in their background are even more compliant. We become ‘People Pleasers’ her not make other people happy at our own expense.

Women must decide that they come onto this world as strong young girls then become domesticated. Tolerant. Willig to settle. But I know ladies we can do better. We can support and encourage one another.

The question to ask yourself almost daily is: Who were you meant to be BEFORE you became who you are? Look deep within to the promise you made yourself as a child. How you would not change like the adults around you did. Make you way back to that person.

Most important thing is to be happy, be true to you and follow your heart.

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Winner Never Quit, Quitters Never Win

Believe in You and keep going.

I love studying human behaviors. If you really want to see how humans behave and thing…is an election season. Some people lead, others follow. Who is mentally strong and not?

VP Biden was running out of money, had no organization to speak about and little hope. However, he receives a few endorsements and bam…he’s back in. That is a winner. Just keep going.

Sometimes you can’t know quit. You must keep following your dreams. Trust in your skills. You are sure at the end of every challenging journey is a success. Or at the least a lesson to be learned. Step back and see what you are suppose to learn.

Just remember Winners never quit!

Your Second Mountain can be Messy.

For the first time, many women will have a choice of what business to start.

Women who are 55 – 80 took jobs that worked for their schedules. Child care, after work events, taking care of the house. Plus women had only started entering the work force in mid 1960.

Until late 1970’s women could not get a credit card without their husbands’ signature. It was truly a much different time. Most women accepted a job based on availability then developed the skill set to match the job. If they desired a promotion they would adopt that skill set needed.

In the Book Called, The Second Mountain it talks about how most people do not really need to think too much for themselves. Parents, the school system, support system in most cases take care of this. Then at 19 off to college, marriage, travel, work or a host of other things and they are expected to think for themselves. Find the right job, apartment, friends and support system.

I argue that women also at 55- 65 apprachiend their Third Mountain. This is the mountain where they have raised the children, taken care of the their parents. marriage. Now they have choice. Looking at retiremtn many are choosng to start a business.

However, because they needed to develop so many skill sets it takes time to determine what they desire to do. What they really want to focus on. They are true multipassionate future entreprenuers.

If you are interested in a great read here’s the link, The Second Mountain

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